Online dating is like shopping online... Think about it, You pick a website and login, like you pick a store and login. You start searching for potential people that you may like, and you search for clothes that you may like. Then when you find that person that you are attracted to, you look through their profile to see if their background fits what you're looking for, just like you pick a item of clothing and then see if they have your size. Online dating is online shopping for a potential mate. If you have fun shopping, you can have fun online dating. But just like you would have those clothes shipped to you, you have to be willing to eventually meet in person. Don't be a tease (to yourself or anyone else) by window shopping.